This was supposed to be a posting telling you all about Blog Rocking Beats 2 that took place last Saturday.But within a few hours of returning home I got a phone call from my dad telling me that my brother David had been killed in a car crash on the N59 road just outside a village called Leenane in County Mayo, Ireland. He had died at the scene of the accident at just after 1am, which is probably about the time I had turned into bed after coming home from the club night.
David was 43 years of age.
He move to Westport in Ireland around two years ago. He was on his way home from a night out in Galway when his car left the road and hit a ditch. No one else was in the car with him and no other vehicle was involved. Just a tragic accident.
I've consoled myself all of Sunday by knowing that the last two years of his life were the happiest he's ever been.
I'm going to going over to Ireland tomorrow with my mum, dad and my missus, while my brother is flying into Dublin from Florida. A nephew and a couple of long-standing family friends are also making the journey from Glasgow.
We've decided to lay him to rest in Ireland and do things the traditional Irish way.
It's going to be an emotional few days with a service and wake on Wednesday night, followed by a cross-country drive the next morning as we take his body to Dublin to one of what is just a handful of crematoria in Ireland.
I've no idea when I'll be back in blog-land. Probably at least a week.
In the meantime, I hope you don't mind if I leave you with one of David's favourites songs from one of his favourite bands when he was just a kid.
mp3 : Marillion - Market Square Heroes
Rest In Peace Brother. You'll be missed more than you'd ever have dared to imagine.
69 comments:
Oh Jesus, so sorry mate.
Forget about the bloody blog, just go be with your family.
Keep the brave face on JC, as i said earlier, get stuck into a bottle of Bushmills, get your despondency out, and be brave for the rest of the kin!
Peace be onto you pal.
Very sorry for your loss.
Man my thoughts are with you and your family...
Regards/
Really so sorry to hear your of your news mate.
How heartbreaking - my thoughts are with you and your family. Hug your momma so tight when you see her and tell her you love her.
Wow - heartbreaking news. My thoughts and sympathies are with you and your family. I'll seek out a song to send to the universe in honor of your brother - likely some vintage Smiths or Prince. Take care and safe travels.
So sorry, JC. Take care fella.
That's terrible. So very sorry, JC. My thoughts are with you. Take care of yourself.
Terrible, terrible news. Nothing to say, except we'll be thinking of you and yours.
I'm so sorry. Take care, JC. With love xx
Thoughts with you JC; awful news, I am so sorry.
I'm so sorry, JC. Take care. With love xx
Sorry to hear of the sudden loss of your brother.
Remember the good times, and take it easy.
Tarkers
I'm so sorry to hear this. Your family will be in my thoughts.
Take care of yourself, but most importantly, tell your loved ones that you love them.
Again, my condolences.
I'm so sorry.
That is truly terrible news.
Take care.
Awful JC, just awful. Look after yourself and those around you.
I'm lost for words, mate .... very sorry indeed to read this!
Take good care, will you?
Dirk
JC
Our thoughts are with you and your families at this time.
Please take care of yourselves.
Love and thoughts
Conrad
I spent last night complaining about the behaviour of the Dutch players during the World Cup final - something that just wasn't that important in retrospect.
So sorry to hear of your loss,
Jamie
Very sorry to hear about your brother. Hope you find peace in the company of loved ones.
Sorry to hear about your brother, JC.
Craig
Sad sad news JC.
Wish I could say something useful but words are pretty hopeless at a time like this.
My deepest condolences to you and your family, JC.
I discovered your blog a few weeks ago and it's like a treasure box. To be frank, i discovered it with a lot of emotions : thanks Google i discovered what you wrote about c-tel and his son. Then i discovered c-tel and it was so sad, especially because i got a very young son.
And now today i feel sad about what you felt and how you are now. I'm really soory for your loss.
Jp ( from France ) ( sorry for my english spoken, i hope i'm understable )
I'm so sorry. Thinking of you and your family. [hugs]
very sorry to hear about your loss
we're thinking of you and your family out here in blogland - take care
Oh God - what a horrible thing to happen. Condolences to you and your family.
Rich C
So sorry to hear this.My thoughts will be with you and your family
So sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Very sorry to read that devastating news.
Tragic news,JC.
It'll be a rough week or so for for you.Be strong.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Phil
Tel Aviv
What dreadful news, JC. Love & strength to you & yours at this time.
Andrew
Oh Jim, so sorry to read this.
Sending good will your way and thinking of you.
Ed and Sam
So sorry. Take care.
thinking of you jc and ther rest of your family
So sorry to hear such sad news JC.Condolences to you and your family.
My sympathies, JC, sorry for your loss.
Robert
So sorry to hear the sad news JC
Condolences from an old reader in Philadelphia. You've brought us lots of happiness over the years. Sorry to read about your loss.
T.J.
Very sorry to hear your news. I too lost my brother at age 44 suddenly. Peace to you and your family.
Love your blog & enjoy your enthusiasm.
So sorry to hear your dreadful news. Condolences to you & your family.
My very deepest sympathy and all my love JC.
my sympathies to you and your family, JC
To everyone who has said such nice things here as well as in emails.....thank you. It means an awful lot to have such support from friends in such difficult times.
Its 5am Tuesday morning. Just about to head out to the airport to catch a flight to Dublin and then a train all the way across Ireland to the West Coast.
It's going to be a strange and surreal few days. But I really do take strength from everything you've all said.
I will be back soon.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this trying time. May you lean on them for support and comfort.
Take care.
My deepest condolences.
Condolences and sympathies.
Music suggested via your blog helped me through a similar, difficult time.
D.
My very deepest condolences.
So sorry to hear such sad news, my deepest sympathy to you and your family.
So terribly sad.
My thoughts are with you and your family
Hey Jim - my thoughts are with you.
Not sure what else i can say. I guess we should all be reminded about how important it is we try and strive to make a differemce in the short time we have - no matter how small the difference.
Take care
Hang in there, JC, and draw strength from those closest to you. My prayers and condolences to your family. Keep him alive in your memories and in the music you shared.
Warden
Jesus....just logged on...dreadful news...I will say a prayer for your brother tonight JC. My condolences...may you and the family experience some peace and gentleness amidst the pain. May he rest in peace. All the best from Stevie in Sydney.
Oh, JC, I am so sorry - the universe often unfolds in painful ways. You & yours are in my thoughts. I wish you all strength and peace.
Oh man :(
I'm so so sorry and my thoughts go to you and your family. Hopefully you can seek strength in each other.
My deepest condolences to you and your family. I wish you all the strength comfort needed in this trying time.
I'm so sorry. Take care pal.
Richard from Costa Rica,
You are a great person and I'm sure your brother was the same. So, so sorry for your loss! Peace be with you brother.
Sorry to hear your terrible news. Basil
Very sorry to hear of your loss JC. My thoughts are with you and your family during this time. Look after each other and take care.
So sorry to hear your bad news. Look after yourself.
My sincere sympathies. Be there for your Mom, call her just a little more often. I found this to be best as we went through a similar situation a few years back.
Really sorry to hear your sad news. I lost my best mate in a motorcycle accident in 1981 and I still think about him everyday. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Condolences from the US. Having recently lost my cousin to cancer, I can imagine what you and your family are going through. My thoughts will be with you.
Very much sadness in reading this. Music and everything else fades into the distance on reading such words.
My thoughts are with you and your family too.
Thanks for your words on music.
JC, I am so sorry for your great loss. My heart goes out to you and yours.
Just stopped in to do a grab and go, hopping a plane to London in 4 hours. No time to really read any posts, but don't want to miss any songs because I'm weeks behind in downloading...And this news grabs my eyes and makes me stop. Really sorry man, for your loss. It will take a while for it to really set in. My thoughts are with you.
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