Monday, July 12, 2010

NOT QUITE WHAT I WAS EXPECTING TO BE TALKING ABOUT TODAY....

This was supposed to be a posting telling you all about Blog Rocking Beats 2 that took place last Saturday.

But within a few hours of returning home I got a phone call from my dad telling me that my brother David had been killed in a car crash on the N59 road just outside a village called Leenane in County Mayo, Ireland. He had died at the scene of the accident at just after 1am, which is probably about the time I had turned into bed after coming home from the club night.

David was 43 years of age.

He move to Westport in Ireland around two years ago. He was on his way home from a night out in Galway when his car left the road and hit a ditch. No one else was in the car with him and no other vehicle was involved. Just a tragic accident.

I've consoled myself all of Sunday by knowing that the last two years of his life were the happiest he's ever been.

I'm going to going over to Ireland tomorrow with my mum, dad and my missus, while my brother is flying into Dublin from Florida. A nephew and a couple of long-standing family friends are also making the journey from Glasgow.

We've decided to lay him to rest in Ireland and do things the traditional Irish way.

It's going to be an emotional few days with a service and wake on Wednesday night, followed by a cross-country drive the next morning as we take his body to Dublin to one of what is just a handful of crematoria in Ireland.

I've no idea when I'll be back in blog-land. Probably at least a week.

In the meantime, I hope you don't mind if I leave you with one of David's favourites songs from one of his favourite bands when he was just a kid.

mp3 : Marillion - Market Square Heroes

Rest In Peace Brother. You'll be missed more than you'd ever have dared to imagine.

69 comments:

londonlee said...

Oh Jesus, so sorry mate.

Forget about the bloody blog, just go be with your family.

ANCB said...

Keep the brave face on JC, as i said earlier, get stuck into a bottle of Bushmills, get your despondency out, and be brave for the rest of the kin!

Peace be onto you pal.

Anonymous said...

Very sorry for your loss.

Mona said...

Man my thoughts are with you and your family...
Regards/

Ste said...

Really so sorry to hear your of your news mate.

Anonymous said...

How heartbreaking - my thoughts are with you and your family. Hug your momma so tight when you see her and tell her you love her.

Keith said...

Wow - heartbreaking news. My thoughts and sympathies are with you and your family. I'll seek out a song to send to the universe in honor of your brother - likely some vintage Smiths or Prince. Take care and safe travels.

Rol said...

So sorry, JC. Take care fella.

Jonny East/West said...

That's terrible. So very sorry, JC. My thoughts are with you. Take care of yourself.

Ctelblog said...

Terrible, terrible news. Nothing to say, except we'll be thinking of you and yours.

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry. Take care, JC. With love xx

davy h said...

Thoughts with you JC; awful news, I am so sorry.

adam said...

I'm so sorry, JC. Take care. With love xx

Tarkers said...

Sorry to hear of the sudden loss of your brother.

Remember the good times, and take it easy.

Tarkers

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry to hear this. Your family will be in my thoughts.

Take care of yourself, but most importantly, tell your loved ones that you love them.

Again, my condolences.

David said...

I'm so sorry.

That is truly terrible news.

Take care.

swiss adam said...

Awful JC, just awful. Look after yourself and those around you.

Dirk said...

I'm lost for words, mate .... very sorry indeed to read this!

Take good care, will you?

Dirk

ximeremix said...

JC

Our thoughts are with you and your families at this time.
Please take care of yourselves.

Love and thoughts

Conrad

Anonymous said...

I spent last night complaining about the behaviour of the Dutch players during the World Cup final - something that just wasn't that important in retrospect.

So sorry to hear of your loss,

Jamie

rob said...

Very sorry to hear about your brother. Hope you find peace in the company of loved ones.

Phil Spector said...

Sorry to hear about your brother, JC.

Craig

david said...

Sad sad news JC.
Wish I could say something useful but words are pretty hopeless at a time like this.

Andrew Weiss said...

My deepest condolences to you and your family, JC.

Anonymous said...

I discovered your blog a few weeks ago and it's like a treasure box. To be frank, i discovered it with a lot of emotions : thanks Google i discovered what you wrote about c-tel and his son. Then i discovered c-tel and it was so sad, especially because i got a very young son.
And now today i feel sad about what you felt and how you are now. I'm really soory for your loss.

Jp ( from France ) ( sorry for my english spoken, i hope i'm understable )

Kimberly said...

I'm so sorry. Thinking of you and your family. [hugs]

Anonymous said...

very sorry to hear about your loss

Anonymous said...

we're thinking of you and your family out here in blogland - take care

Anonymous said...

Oh God - what a horrible thing to happen. Condolences to you and your family.

Rich C

ATQO said...

So sorry to hear this.My thoughts will be with you and your family

Mick said...

So sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Anonymous said...

Very sorry to read that devastating news.

Anonymous said...

Tragic news,JC.
It'll be a rough week or so for for you.Be strong.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Phil
Tel Aviv

Davis McArdle said...

What dreadful news, JC. Love & strength to you & yours at this time.

Andrew

Ed said...

Oh Jim, so sorry to read this.

Sending good will your way and thinking of you.

Ed and Sam

Tanner said...

So sorry. Take care.

friend of rachel worth said...

thinking of you jc and ther rest of your family

Scott said...

So sorry to hear such sad news JC.Condolences to you and your family.

Robert Spark said...

My sympathies, JC, sorry for your loss.

Robert

Mondo said...

So sorry to hear the sad news JC

Anonymous said...

Condolences from an old reader in Philadelphia. You've brought us lots of happiness over the years. Sorry to read about your loss.

T.J.

Anonymous said...

Very sorry to hear your news. I too lost my brother at age 44 suddenly. Peace to you and your family.

Anonymous said...

Love your blog & enjoy your enthusiasm.
So sorry to hear your dreadful news. Condolences to you & your family.

Greer said...

My very deepest sympathy and all my love JC.

Anonymous said...

my sympathies to you and your family, JC

JC said...

To everyone who has said such nice things here as well as in emails.....thank you. It means an awful lot to have such support from friends in such difficult times.

Its 5am Tuesday morning. Just about to head out to the airport to catch a flight to Dublin and then a train all the way across Ireland to the West Coast.

It's going to be a strange and surreal few days. But I really do take strength from everything you've all said.

I will be back soon.

Jon said...

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this trying time. May you lean on them for support and comfort.

Take care.

Ola said...

My deepest condolences.

Black Lucia said...

Condolences and sympathies.

Music suggested via your blog helped me through a similar, difficult time.

D.

Arthit said...

My very deepest condolences.

Duncan said...

So sorry to hear such sad news, my deepest sympathy to you and your family.

barbelith said...

So terribly sad.

My thoughts are with you and your family

Francis said...

Hey Jim - my thoughts are with you.

Not sure what else i can say. I guess we should all be reminded about how important it is we try and strive to make a differemce in the short time we have - no matter how small the difference.

Take care

Anonymous said...

Hang in there, JC, and draw strength from those closest to you. My prayers and condolences to your family. Keep him alive in your memories and in the music you shared.

Warden

Stevie said...

Jesus....just logged on...dreadful news...I will say a prayer for your brother tonight JC. My condolences...may you and the family experience some peace and gentleness amidst the pain. May he rest in peace. All the best from Stevie in Sydney.

FiL said...

Oh, JC, I am so sorry - the universe often unfolds in painful ways. You & yours are in my thoughts. I wish you all strength and peace.

Anonymous said...

Oh man :(

I'm so so sorry and my thoughts go to you and your family. Hopefully you can seek strength in each other.

Echorich said...

My deepest condolences to you and your family. I wish you all the strength comfort needed in this trying time.

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry. Take care pal.

Richard from Costa Rica,

Anonymous said...

You are a great person and I'm sure your brother was the same. So, so sorry for your loss! Peace be with you brother.

Anonymous said...

Sorry to hear your terrible news. Basil

Agnes said...

Very sorry to hear of your loss JC. My thoughts are with you and your family during this time. Look after each other and take care.

keith said...

So sorry to hear your bad news. Look after yourself.

Greg said...

My sincere sympathies. Be there for your Mom, call her just a little more often. I found this to be best as we went through a similar situation a few years back.

SriRacha Shark said...

Really sorry to hear your sad news. I lost my best mate in a motorcycle accident in 1981 and I still think about him everyday. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Brett said...

Condolences from the US. Having recently lost my cousin to cancer, I can imagine what you and your family are going through. My thoughts will be with you.

Anonymous said...

Very much sadness in reading this. Music and everything else fades into the distance on reading such words.
My thoughts are with you and your family too.

Thanks for your words on music.

Natsthename said...

JC, I am so sorry for your great loss. My heart goes out to you and yours.

Mr. Mabiliner said...

Just stopped in to do a grab and go, hopping a plane to London in 4 hours. No time to really read any posts, but don't want to miss any songs because I'm weeks behind in downloading...And this news grabs my eyes and makes me stop. Really sorry man, for your loss. It will take a while for it to really set in. My thoughts are with you.