THE GOOD OLD DAYS
My very earliest memory of music – and I’m going back to when I was 5 or 6 years of age - is of a huge big cupboard that was in my gran’s house - the sort of thing pictured above.
While there was a record player behind one of its doors, the thing that fascinated me most was the huge big dial that turned in a circle and moved a red line from left to right or the other way around. There were loads of words printed on the window in front of the red line – and when I asked, I was told these were cities all over the world and the when the red line hit that word, I would be able to hear songs and talks from a radio station in that city.
Turns out that I wasn’t the only kid fascinated by such a thing :-
mp3 : Martin Stephenson & The Daintees – Sunday Halo
The vocalist announcing all the places on the dial with the ‘Berlin, Munich, Brussels, Bonn etc’ refrain is none other than Cathal Coughlan whose band, The Fatima Mansions, got an honourable mention in dispatches the other week.
I’m not sure if it was the sounds that came out of the cabinet or the fact that I was allowed to play with the dial as I would a toy that led to me having such a long love affair with music. But I think it speaks volumes that while I can barely recall that much detail about things in my life from 40 years ago, I can still picture the radiogramme.
The other great influence in my early musical life was my dad – in as much that with the exception of hearing Tony Blackburn on Radio 1 just before going to school ("and what do you think Arnold – ‘Woof Woof’"), the music played in my house would be the stuff my dad listened to (mum was too busy holding down a job AND running the house to sit down and listen to anything).
By the time I was 10 or 11 years old, I was beginning to form my own views on music – and I even started to ask for Record Tokens for birthdays and Xmas so that I could buy singles by the likes of Gary Glitter, The Sweet, David Essex and The Average White Band (yup, Pick Up The Pieces was one of the first things I remember buying).
My old man at this time would have been 37 or 38 years old – a fair bit younger than I am now. The sort of stuff he was listening to seemed very grown up – you certainly never got to see the likes of Neil Diamond, Johnny Cash or Supertramp on Top of The Pops. Mind you, he also loved Status Quo, and they seemed to be on every week.
But such was my continued exposure to these acts that I knew all the words to songs that my dad played a lot. And its a frightening fact that I still do so many years later. I suppose it’s all got something to do with your capacity and to learn and retain at such an age….
Moving on a few years in time, and I really had found my own feet in terms of music. I knew what I liked, and I also realised that my old man really hated what I liked – something I recalled in this posting during the 45s series. But what I also found was that I totally detested any sort of music that my dad liked…I suppose it’s all got something to do with your desire and instinct to rebel at such an age…..
The thing is, back in 1979, my old man was in his early 40s – still younger than I am today, and this got me thinking and posing a question to myself.
If I had kids who were in their late teens just now, would they be appalled by my taste in music and have a hatred for the likes of Orange Juice, The Smiths, Magazine, The Jam and New Order??
Of course, I can console myself with the fact that with history having a fair chance of repeating itself, my kids would eventually see the light. It might take them another 15-20 years, but one day, they would finally accept that Edwyn, Steven, Howard, Paul and Barney were class acts in the singing stakes – and that the boys and girls who backed them were pretty special as well. In the same way that in my mid-30s, I cottoned on to the fact that my old man had some great taste:-
mp3 : Johnny Cash - Folsom Prison Blues (live)
mp3 : Neil Diamond - I Am I Said
But don’t worry folks, I still can’t abide Supertramp or the Quo.
Happy Listening


8 comments:
It's odd what kids do cotton onto. I've been doing Aesthetics with my S4s in RMPS, and I let them have a couple of weeks when they can bring in music they like.
To my surprise, this has included 'Love Will Tear Us Apart' Waterloo Sunset' 'Blue Monday' and 'Ring Of Fire'. Infinitely preferable to some of the stuff I've been subjected to.
Mind you, in one lesson I played Glasvegas, a few months ago, and that went down really well too...
In our house it was all Lena Martell and Johnny Mathis, if it wasn't for a friend of my mother's son being a few years older and into all the punk that was going on, my listening habits may have been quite different. When I first left school and got a lift to work with my father we had to listen to Clyde 2 which was really dreadful
As for kids, my five year old is quite partial to a bit of the Fall, especially Touch Sensitive (which he calls Vauxhall) and Foldin' Money.
I am now 39 and still can't abide Lena Martell or Johnny Mathis.
Drew
Pick up the Pieces - an absolutely classic Scottish 45.
My Mum and Dad had three kids and then seventeen years later...me.
So they were 'older' - and I grew up listening to Glenn Miller, Frank Sinatra, Frankie Laine, Mantovani and Doris Day. Mum had had a teenager at home as I arrived (the next youngest), so also got to like The Beatles, Stones and Kinks. This was a good musical melting pot to be lightly simmered in and I don't think I ever rebelled against any of it once (I am a massive Sinatra fan to this day).
We rebelled instead against the 'older boys' at school, who liked Genesis, Yes and Emerson, Lake & Palmer.
Supertramp nooooohhhhh!!! (But I do like 'The Logical Song') x
Thanks for the great memories. If it wasn't for you JC, I would have grown up only a Madness & Japan fan.
Your brother
SC
Ah, Supertramp, how can you not like them!? And like DavyH, (who I swear is my alter ego) I was raised with siblings so much older (12 years between the youngest of them and me) and parents who listened to Glen Miller and Nat King Cole and Ella Fitzgerald. Hence I like everything, and never rebelled and was lucky to have a dad who liked my punk music at least a little bit for it's anti-establishment attitude. But yes, I too shudder to think of what sort of music my children (if I had any) would have to dredge up to try and bother me with! xoxo
But try to imagine if you will a childhood with no music at all. Deaf parents innit.
"But such was my continued exposure to these acts that I knew all the words to songs that my dad played a lot. And its a frightening fact that I still do so many years later. I suppose it’s all got something to do with your capacity and to learn and retain at such an age…."
I can completely identify with that sentiment - children have a mind-boggling capacity to retain. It sometimes irks me that I remember all the lyrics to songs I don't even like anymore, but I can't pick up the lyrics to my favourite newer songs easily.
Like a couple of others who have mentioned a large age gap between siblings, my sister is eleven years older than me, and my parents are older than most of my peers' parents. As a result, my musical upbringing was 80s heavy metal from my sister (with the odd Top 40 hit from Cyndi Lauper or Cher) and the likes of Kate Bush, Fleetwood Mac, Pink Floyd, and U2 from my father. I was pretty much flying blind through much of my adolescent years, learning as I went - I had only one friend who was really into music during that time. Sometimes I wish I had had a decent musical mentor in my teen years so that I could have discovered many of the artists I love now that much earlier.
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